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Dec 30, 2009 3:21 am
kitcap:

[quote=Primo]You have not been paying attention to society.  Intolerance vs. the majority is widely accepted.  Simply read this thread.  Intolerance vs. a “protected class” is bashed.  Most people (majority) have no problem with the Pledge, yet it is kept out of schools.  A minority of people think a gay pride parade is good use of an afternoon, yet if it were to be stopped, watch the lawsuits flood in.[/quote]

So… in order for the majority to be satiated, the minority need to be squashed?  Quite the opposite. I believe that was what Mills called ‘tyranny of the majority’. What does the Pledge in school has to do with Gay Parades? I believe the argument against the Pledge was the need to separate church and state. The Pledge said in a public school is different from a parade held on public streets how?  Both are held in public places.  The difference is one is based on religion, while the other is based on non-religion.  Since the majority believes in God, shouldn’t both be allowed in the pursuit of tolerance?  I could kill a minority while uttering a slur and be convicted of a hate crime.  The same situation in reverse does not apply.  Why?  Is the crime different simply because I am not a minority?  THis is my issue.  If tolerance is the game of the day, where is the tolerance for what I believe in?  That is a different topic entirely. There is nothing in society which stops you from doing the Pledge, or organizing a public forum where a group of people do the Pledge of Allegiance. Just like there is no movement to organize a gay parade in the public schools. Tolerance… Why is there a problem if a private group organize a parade? I thought Liberty and Pursuit of Happiness were two of the main tenants of the Declaration of Independence?


Dec 30, 2009 4:25 am

Primo -

Dec 30, 2009 4:44 am

This is an arguement that will never be won, ask any Iraqi.

Dec 30, 2009 4:48 am

[quote=Primo]The Pledge said in a public school is different from a parade held on public streets how?  Both are held in public places.  The difference is one is based on religion, while the other is based on non-religion. Since the majority believes in God, shouldn’t both be allowed in the pursuit of tolerance? 
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One is in a publicly funded school system, the other is privately organized and funded. Yes, they are held in public places, but there is nothing preventing you from sending your children to a private school, where you will not be using public dollars. For the record, I am not advocating that the Pledge of Allegiance should be excluded from public schools, but I understand the basis for the challenge. I do not think we are comparing apples to apples in this example. The challenge for this is not an organized minority, it is a legal challenge in the court system.

[quote=Primo]I could kill a minority while uttering a slur and be convicted of a hate crime.  The same situation in reverse does not apply.  Why?  Is the crime different simply because I am not a minority?  This is my issue. 
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I am not a lawyer, but i would agree with you if this is indeed true. I hate these type of examples, from either side of the coin. It is like the debate where it is often cited where African American males are vastly more likely to face the death penalty. The fact remains, that it is hard for white males to complain injustice. If you kill a Caucasian in our society, you are more likely to face the death penalty than if you kill a minority, that is a statistical fact, hate crime or not. That being said, it shouldn’t really doesn’t matter, if you kill someone in our society then justice should be equal for all, and on paper it is, it is our job (as the people) to hold the courts accountable. Forgiveness can be spiritual, but I can think of very few examples where those people deserve to ever walk free. This is less about revenge, and more about protecting our society. Hate crime… when does someone kill another where hate is not involved. But this is not about tolerance, I feel equally bad for the victim of a hate crime whether they are Christian or Gay or a gay christian…   

[quote=Primo]If tolerance is the game of the day, where is the tolerance for what I believe in? …
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I don’t know what you mean game of the day… For myself, it is a personal choice. Sure, there are times where I feel my lifestyle is being persecuted because I happen to be part of the majority. But I shutter to think that I need to become militant about my beliefs and excluding of others to protect my way of life. This is tolerance, not conformity.

Dec 30, 2009 5:03 am
kitcap:

[quote=Primo]The Pledge said in a public school is different from a parade held on public streets how?  Both are held in public places.  The difference is one is based on religion, while the other is based on non-religion. Since the majority believes in God, shouldn’t both be allowed in the pursuit of tolerance? 
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One is in a publicly funded school system, the other is privately organized and funded. Yes, they are held in public places, but there is nothing preventing you from sending your children to a private school,  Just as there is nothing preventing a parade on private property.  Streets are publically funded. where you will not be using public dollars. For the record, I am not advocating that the Pledge of Allegiance should be excluded from public schools, but I understand the basis for the challenge. Saying the Pledge does not advocate a religious preference, it is a pledge to our country, which provides the protections necessary to have a parade celebrating whatever you want to celebrate.I do not think we are comparing apples to apples in this example. The challenge for this is not an organized minority,my point exactly, it is a challenge to protect the minority number of students who may be offended. it is a legal challenge in the court system.

[quote=Primo]I could kill a minority while uttering a slur and be convicted of a hate crime.  The same situation in reverse does not apply.  Why?  Is the crime different simply because I am not a minority?  This is my issue. 
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I am not a lawyer, but i would agree with you if this is indeed true. I hate these type of examples, from either side of the coin. It is like the debate where it is often cited where African American males are vastly more likely to face the death penalty. To me it really doesn’t matter, if you kill someone in our society then justice should be equal for all, and on paper it is, it is our job (as the people) to hold the courts accountable. Forgiveness can be spiritual, but I can think of very few examples where those people deserve to ever walk free. This is less about revenge, and more about protecting our society. Hate crime… when does someone kill another where hate is not involved. But this is not about tolerance, I feel equally bad for the victim of a hate crime whether they are Christian or Gay or a gay christian…   

[quote=Primo]If tolerance is the game of the day, where is the tolerance for what I believe in? …
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I don’t know what you mean game of the day… For myself, it is a personal choice. Sure, there are times where I feel my lifestyle is being persecuted because I happen to be part of the majority. Where is your protection during this time.  They don’t exist. But I shutter to think that I need to become militant Who’s talking about becoming militant?  Typically, minorities become militant (litigious [sp?}) when they feel their rights are being violated, but someone like Spiff is bashed for an opinion that falls closer to the majority than the minority  about my beliefs and excluding of others to protect my way of life. This is tolerance, not conformity. I am all for being tolerant.  However, when does forcing the majority to be tolerant lead to conformity to the minority?

Dec 30, 2009 5:11 am

[quote=Ron 14]

Windy-Which version? Because there are over 100 MAN MADE books…in tons of different languages and all of them having different content…Hmm…better pick the right one to follow, or you’re going to hell…lol…



All of them have different content, that is laughable. [/quote]



Tell me that the New Testament is EXACTLY like the OLD Testament and tell me that foreign languages can always 100% be translated exactly the same? They can’t and the different versions of the bible are very different. I’m not even religious and I know that…
Dec 30, 2009 5:23 am

[quote=Primo] Just as there is nothing preventing a parade on private property.  Streets are publically funded.
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Too tired to continue this one… and need to finish off some work… but one point I want to ask… you consider the use of public streets a subsidy? We are talking the First Amendment here… Freedom of Assembly. If a private organization wants to have a protest, or parade, in a peaceful manner, you would deny them that right?

There is nothing stop a gay parade, or a parade in support of reinstating the Pledge in Schools, it is an equal and comparable playing field.

There is nothing stopping anyone in our society from sending their kids to a private school, which better reflects their religious values. Obviously this is a costly alternative, but our society should not be in the business of subsidizing religious education.

Dec 30, 2009 12:38 pm

[quote=Primo]… Didn’t Jesus show tolerance towards criminals?

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ABSOLUTELY NOT!!!



Jesus showed forgiveness … not tolerance!
Dec 30, 2009 1:19 pm

[quote=kitcap]

[quote=Primo] Just as there is nothing preventing a parade on private property.  Streets are publically funded.
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Too tired to continue this one… and need to finish off some work… but one point I want to ask… you consider the use of public streets a subsidy? We are talking the First Amendment here… Freedom of Assembly. If a private organization wants to have a protest, or parade, in a peaceful manner, you would deny them that right?

There is nothing stop a gay parade, or a parade in support of reinstating the Pledge in Schools, it is an equal and comparable playing field.

There is nothing stopping anyone in our society from sending their kids to a private school, which better reflects their religious values. Obviously this is a costly alternative, but our society should not be in the business of subsidizing religious education.
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I would not deny them that right.  However, children are prevented from praying in groups at school.  Yet even now there are high schools with gay clubs that pass out flyers about gay marriage, pushing their beliefs on people who don’t support it.  If a Christian or Jewish or even Muslim student were to do that with their religious pamphlets, it would be stopped in a hearbeat.

There is a double standard.  You are just too stubborn to admit it.

Tolerance only goes one way in this country.

Dec 30, 2009 3:04 pm

Jesus teaches us to hate the sin, but love the sinner.

Dec 30, 2009 3:57 pm
Incredible Hulk:

Jesus teaches us to hate the sin, but love the sinner.

  So, Spiff & Ron are gay men then?
Dec 30, 2009 4:47 pm

Hulk - Exactly.  I don’t hate gay people.  I said they creep me out and I don’t want my kids hanging around people with that lifestyle.  I didn’t say that they weren’t allowed to live the life they want to, I just don’t want to have to be subjected to it all the time. 

  Wind - The OT and NT are drastically different.  For one good reason:  Jesus.  The message completely changes after his life and, most specifically, death and resurrection.  I'm guessing lunch when you're in my area the next time will have some interesting conversation.    mlgone - Extra-Biblical historians have proven that the dates and cultural events recorded in the Bible are factual.  I understand that an argument could be made that things like Noah's Ark, the Ten Commandment Scrolls, and other Biblical artifacts would be wonderful to unearth and have on display as absolute proof that they existed.  However, when looked at from a scientific, geological, and historical context, the Bible is incredibly accurate.  Before you dismiss is as complete fiction, you really should do some research to see if there is any factual evidence to prove that it is indeed a work of fiction or not.  
Dec 30, 2009 5:01 pm

[quote=Spaceman Spiff]

Wind - The OT and NT are drastically different.  For one good reason:  Jesus.  The message completely changes after his life and, most specifically, death and resurrection.  I'm guessing lunch when you're in my area the next time will have some interesting conversation.   [/quote]   Wasn't bashing buddy. Just explaining to Ron, that all the versions are different. He didn't agree and I can promise you, that the last thing i want to talk about at any luncheon, is religion.
Dec 30, 2009 5:45 pm

Fair enough.  We’ll keep it to politics, beer, and football.  Well, I can at least have an intelligent conversation about one of those things. 

Dec 30, 2009 5:59 pm

Spiff, what is a “gay lifestyle”?

  I know what it means to be gay.  I don't know what it means to have a "gay lifestyle".   What are you going to do if one of your kids is gay?  Is he going to be raised in an environment in which he won't be able to tell his dad that he's gay?
Dec 30, 2009 7:01 pm

[quote=mlgone][quote=anonymous]Spiff, what is a “gay lifestyle”?

  I know what it means to be gay.  I don't know what it means to have a "gay lifestyle".   What are you going to do if one of your kids is gay?  Is he going to be raised in an environment in which he won't be able to tell his dad that he's gay?[/quote]   He will be exercised[/quote] Pushups?  Running laps?
Dec 30, 2009 7:42 pm

[quote=mlgone][quote=anonymous]Spiff, what is a “gay lifestyle”?

  I know what it means to be gay.  I don't know what it means to have a "gay lifestyle".   What are you going to do if one of your kids is gay?  Is he going to be raised in an environment in which he won't be able to tell his dad that he's gay?[/quote]   He will be exercised[/quote]   There's an idea.  We can run, lift weights, swim, and bike until he's straight. 
Dec 30, 2009 7:46 pm

Spiff, you seem to have trouble answering any direct questions on this issue.  Is there a reason for that?

Dec 30, 2009 7:46 pm

He can meet other straight guys at the gym as well.

Dec 30, 2009 8:31 pm

[quote=anonymous]Spiff, what is a “gay lifestyle”?

  I know what it means to be gay.  I don't know what it means to have a "gay lifestyle".   What are you going to do if one of your kids is gay?  Is he going to be raised in an environment in which he won't be able to tell his dad that he's gay?[/quote]   I realize that most gay people lead relatively normal lives, just like I do.  Our routine differs in what we choose to do in our free time.  I spend a lot of time hanging out with other Christians.  I would assume that many gay people choose to spend their time with other gay people.  I would assume that, like in my Christian circles, there is a lot of time and discussion devoted to what it means to be gay, how you are to live your life, and how your position in the world will be affected by changes in the political landscape.  Of course there are the more vocal gay people that we are all aware of.  The ones who will march down the street on gay pride day or head to Disney for their annual celebration of diversity.    If one of my kids is gay - it means that I haven't done my job as a parent.  At least that's how I would feel.  I would guess that yes, he would be a little afraid of telling me that he's gay.  He'd better hope his Grandfather is dead.  That wouldn't be a conversation I'd enjoy participating in.  As strong as you think I come across here, my dad would be ten times as worse.  He's the kind of guy who won't shop somewhere because of their "pro-gay" agenda.    In my mind right now, I would love them and treat them as I always have.  That's what unconditional love is all about.  It doesn't mean that I have to approve of their behavior and choices.  This is exactly the picture God gives to us.  He doesn't always approve of the choices we make, but He promises us His love anyway.  I would hope that as a father, I could live up to that kind of example.