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A New Approach to Family TrustsA New Approach to Family Trusts

Improving the human consequences

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Hartley Goldstone, James E. Hughesand 1 more

November 19, 2015

13 Min Read
A New Approach to Family Trusts

As fiduciary professionals, we’ve often confronted three questions in our practices:1 

 

• How can more beneficiaries come to see their trusts as blessings rather than burdens?

• How can people living with trusts make sure that these trusts embody primarily human relationships and, only afterwards, legal relationships?

• If a trustee had to terminate a trust tomorrow and distribute its assets, how could both the trustee and the beneficiary feel more secure that the beneficiary could successfully integrate those assets into his life?

 

These questions arose from our many years of practice, both advising trust creators fired with the dream of establishing trusts that would stand the test of generations, as well as consulting with beneficiaries w...

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About the Authors

Hartley Goldstone

Founder, Trustscape LLC

www.NavigatingTheTrustscape.com

Hartley Goldstone, J.D., MBA, delights in being surprised by profound questions, having served families for 25 years as attorney, trust officer, and planner.

He co-authored, along with Kathy Wiseman, the recently published "TrustWorthy - New Angles on Trusts From Beneficiaries and Trustees," which is a collection of 25 personal — and positive — stories told by beneficiaries, trustees and their advisors. The book is an outgrowth of the ongoing Beneficiary and Trustee Positive Story Project begun in 2010. 

Today, Hartley offers keynote presentations, customized interactive workshops, and personal consultation to advisory firms, family offices, trust companies and inheritors in all stages of life.

Services are directed toward re-framing what has been described as the most complex, conflicted and difficult relationship known under the law — the “arranged marriage” between beneficiary and trustee — that too often fails downstream generations. The focus is on raising awareness of positive possibilities and then assisting to discern practical steps to tackle big questions.

Hartley's approach is to help clients find what's going right (while also acknowledging difficulties), build upon that "positive core," and arrive at exceptional results that go well beyond acceptable.

His application of the growing body of positive psychology research to personal trust relationships is unique in the industry.

Hartley has presented at conferences of the Family Office Exchange, Institute of Private Investors, American Bankers Association, Purposeful Planning Institute, and others. Also has been a guest lecturer at the University of Colorado Law School and the Sturm College of Law of the University of Denver.

He was awarded his Bachelor of Arts degree from the University of Pennsylvania and MBA and JD degrees from the University of Denver.

Hartley lives near Denver, Colorado with his wife and sons.

 

Keith Whitaker

Keith Whitaker is a founding associate of Wise Counsel Research Associates in Milton, Mass.